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Jun. 11th, 2026 01:35 pm
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https://bohemiancrip.blogspot.com/2026/06/didnt-quite-finish-turn-washingtons.html
I thought learning about General Arnold's disability was interesting.
Other than that, I got two rejection slips this month and haven't been sick to my stomach in a few days.
I haven't been sleeping well, though. Despite thinking that after every late night, the next day will get me back on-track again or something, it doesn't happen.
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Yesterday was a day of downs and ups.

TLDR, we had to let Cece go yesterday. )

So the morning kind of sucked. Once we got home, I cooked my breakfast and hopped online, getting to work only 15 minutes late.

On my first break, I mentioned that after having a kitty again, I hated being without, and we agreed to do some preliminary browsing on Petfinder. In the meantime, I reactivated our application with Cocoa Kitties in Hershey. They called me right back. Unfortunately, the kitten we'd been looking at was taken, but they have a ton of other cats and kittens.

We browsed the kittens and found a few possibilities, but the we looked at the cats and found one named "Thin Lizzy," after the band. She is a year old, and just finished weaning her kittens and was getting spayed today. She's a rather small cat, so I don't know how she managed to have so many kittens (like 6). Most of them have already gone, but no one wanted a momma cat.

Our next potential cat

She's described as sweet and gentle and a snuggle bug. Our application has already been approved from before Cece, and we just kind of fell in love with her little face. The rescue was so happy when we said that she was the one. They just kept saying that we made their day, because she's such a sweet cat, and after getting pregnant on the streets, she deserved a good home.

Jess immediately began cleaning the room. Even though the FELV virus can only live for 3 minutes outside the body, we're going to give it a good clean, and disenfect the areas Cece was, like the closet and our bed. We had actually gotten a new comforter, so we stripped the bed and put the new comforter on. I've got some veterinary strength disenfectant to wipe everything else down with, and we're going to throw the pad from the cat tree (where she sat for 15 seconds) into the wash and dryer.

We threw out the litter box and the drinking fountain, as that would be hard to sterilize. The bowls can be washed and run through the dishwasher on nuclear to take care of them. We'll vacuum under the bed and maybe spritz the carpet with the disenfectant. One bed, that she laid behind is gone and a replacement ordered. We also ordered a new cat carrier, which will be here tomorrow.

More cat toys were just delivered. We're throwing away all Cece's toys to be safe, and I've gotten a bunch of springs, and a laser pointer and a ribbon dancer. We also have some still boxed toy mice with catnip that she can have.

Basically, she can have anything she wants. Once we get her, I'll make an appointment with the new vet and we'll take her for her checkup and an FELV vaccine.

It looks like the new vet does some in-house testing, unlike the one we have currently, who always has to send out the blood. I'd like answers in real time from here on out, thank you.

I'm waiting for her foster to reach out to me, so that we can make sure she's comfortable with us, and hopefully set up a time for us to get her. I'm thinking Saturday morning (assuming she's recovering from her spaying okay, that is).

We do have a game Saturday, but it's not til 2, so if we leave at 8, get to Hershey by 10, and then head home, we'll probably get home about 12:30-1pm. That gives time for decompression and preparation, and I'll be good to run the game. That'll mean Jess will be sitting in the bedroom for 3 hours to help get her used to us.

I have so many questions about the little girl and what she'll like and what she'll want to do. They said she's a snuggler, so I'm hoping she'll sleep with us, and maybe even lay on us sometimes. Will she sit next to Jess while we game? What does her meow sound like? Is it tiny and polite like Cece or is she more like Boodle where she screams loudly when she needs something. These are things I must know!

Work took forever and a day, and I was not entirely focused. I still managed to get a few things done between surfing cats on Petfinder. Today will be better.

My boss put out a note reminding people that their screens are always recording, and that we could see when they go into aftercall and their mouse doesn't move for 5 minutes. Surprisingly, after that, people actually worked. The calls weren't bad for most of the day, and they kept mostly on top of them. I think the max number of people holding at once time was 10, which is a far cry from the 69 (nice) of the day before.

I feel bad for her. As the big boss, she always gets to play the heavy while the deputy manager and team managers skate by. The PAS 3's tend to get some shit, too, as we're the ones going to people and being like "Is everything okay? You've been in aftercall for 5 minutes."

That'll be me on Monday. I'm sure I'll be popular. I need to double check what my schedule will be for the two days I'm working for them. I know on Monday it's probably a 10 hour day, which will be exhausting. But I'm not sure about the 25th. I'll mention that to my manager today so I can prepare accordingly.

Last night we had steak, and it just did not taste good to me. It was like being back right after I had covid with "this steak tastes rotten." My sister and Jess' steaks tasted fine, so it was definitely a me thing. I had a slice of pizza instead. Tonight, I shall bake those lobsters. I wanted to give Cece some, but I didn't get around to it, and they need to be used tonight or tomorrow, so I can't wait for Lizzy. I'll just have to get another pack once she's here.

I hope the lobster tastes right for me. That would suck otherwise. Seafood was usually good, even when I was in the land of Covid, so I think it'll be okay.

I don't know whether to bother making baked potatoes with the lobster. I just don't know if people would have room to eat it. We've got enough for two tails each with two left over, so people may not have room for them. Then again, the lobster tails are pretty small, so I think I'll give it a try.

Aside from that, I'll just be jumping on any calls today with a number I don't recognize, hoping it's the foster. I want to assure her that they're making the right decision in letting us adopt, though after the glowing reference that [personal profile] poisontaster wrote, they probably already think we're the modern equivalent of St Francis of Asisi!

I feel like she got us this cat. I hope she likes us.

And on that note, I believe I shall go forth and get myself ready for work. Everyone have the very best Thursday!
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I am thoroughly wiped this morning. Despite the antinausea meds, Cece still refused to eat, so we took her up to the emergency vet last night. It was a long night, and she is such a good cat. She's mildly-moderately anemic, but not enough to jump in and transfuse, but since she hasn't been eating, they decided that they'd keep her overnight to keep an eye on her and see if they could better manage her nausea and also to give her some antibiotics. FELV cats are prone to infection, so we're going to see if that's part of what's causing the nausea. Also a shot of some B Vitamins to help her perk a bit. Once the labs come in this morning, the ER will get them sent over and then we'll figure out more about her situation. We dragged in at about 10:15 and almost immediately crashed as that is a long way from my 4am wakeup call.

The little room they had us in had an AC set at 74. That's a little high for yours truly, who was honestly wilting. All in all, we got there at 4:45, and we walked out about 5 hours later, and I was exhausted. The chairs also are not particularly comfy.

Fortunately, I seem to have slept a lot of the pains I had when I crawled into bed have eased up.

But through it all, Cece was a rockstar. It may be the anemia or not feeling well, but even the tech was appreciative of her overall chill nature. She was exceptionally good and calm while they took blood and checked her over.

Today, we'll see what the day brings. Maybe, if we're lucky, we can go get her early-ish, Best case, the rest of her labs are okay, they start her on steroids and that and the antibiotics and anti nausea meds help her to eat more, and the anemia fixes itself, or improves some. Second possible is that she needs a blood transfusion to help stabilize her.

Worst case, there's something else wrong with her and we need to euthanize. It's all about what's best for Cece. If treatment will buy us some quality time, we'll go for it. If her quality of life will be shit, then we need to consider things more fully.

It's hard. On one hand, I don't want to piss off the rescue if we have to euth. They fought so hard for her, and it's not their fault that this was bubbling under the surface. Cats are notoriously good at hiding how they're feeling. Honestly, if we weren't so laser focused on her, we might not either. We might have chalked it up to being new. The foster offered to send us money because she feels so bad. On the other hand, I already love her so much. She's such a dainty lady that it's impossible not to love her. I fell with the videos her foster sent before we ever met her. And now that I have met her and petted her head, I love her even more. I really want to see what her personality is like when she's not sick. So, if we can get another little while with her, my tendency is to try.

This is so unfair. She's such a good little cat, she deserves to have a long and happy life. But I'm not sure that's in the cards for Cece. We'll have to wait and see if we can get her over this hurtle.

Today, I will work, and try not to think about Ms Cece. Hopefully the vet calls early and I can maybe pick her up on lunch.

The vet was very hesitant to suggest keeping her overnight due to the lack of knowledge, but she seemed to think that they could do some good, so we went with it. Hopefully she had a good night.

Jess has therapy today. This should be fun. At least they won't have to come up with a topic to discuss!

I really need to get to the pharmacy, since I used my last lisinopril this morning. I meant to go at lunch yesterday, but I was so worried about Cece that I forgot to. If we don't pick up Cece at lunch, I'll go then.

The phones at work have been insane lately. Pretty much since we switched to the new phone system, our calls have been out of control, to the point that at times yesterday, we had 69 (nice) calls in queue. I haven't taken the brunt, though I have been taking calls when I can to try to help.

I'm on the brand new recognition committee and we're struggling on how to reward the team. We're going to set up a meeting when we can take an hour and hammer out what we've got to work with. I think they're going to be doing extra break time and maybe hour lunches. It'll impact the call volume, but one person isn't going to make or break things when we're 50+ calls deep.

I'm getting trained on how to use other tools ahead of me subbing for the other PAS IIIs in the next two weeks. It could be bit hectic, but I'm up to it. The dude who got me on the site we use to document errors forgot to put me on the email list for those errors, so that needed to be fixed. Also, I don't have the capability to check on coworkers who have been idle for a while. I don't know if I'll get that in time or not. I might have to ask the first tier managers to do it if I encounter someone in aftercall for a while.

When I sub, half my day will be on Teams answering questions, and half will be on all the admin stuff like errors and other admin stuff. None of it seems particularly difficult, just time consuming. It will not be a day when I get to check my phone much.

The first day that I'm subbing is on Monday, June 15th, so that's coming up fast. I need to double check what people's schedules are so that I can come in at the appropriate time. I think the other is Thursday, June 25th.

Hopefully, Cece will have settled down by then so I can actually focus.

Also, I had not realized how lazy some of my coworkers are. I assumed, since they started before me and knew their shit that they were good. But now that I have access, I know that a lot of them are not that good. They're hanging out in aftercall for minutes upon minutes on end, fucking around and just not acting like adults with a job. I mean, I get it, the queue sucks, the patients are irritated about waiting and then we don't have appointments in the near future and they don't like that, either, but that's the job..

Also newly finding out how shitty some of the specialist's offices are. Yesterday, one removed a behavioral advisory from a chart hoping that the scheduler would schedule at one of our outpatient sites instead of needing to be scheduled at the hospital. She wasn't even stealth about it. She just removed it in the middle of the call and thought that would get her way. Those alerts are there when the patient is a danger to others and/or themselves. I hope that gets addressed, because that is just shitty to do to the site that she's trying to schedule at and the patient. The hospital based site can provide security and an RN with sedation if need be, where as the other sites might have one aging security guard and no access to meds.

Tomorrow, Cece depending, Yoda has a grooming appt. We'll see how things are going as to whether I reschedule.

I have games every day this weekend. Two that I DM and one that I play in. I need to do a little bit of work on the ones I'm DMing. The one, I just need to read the module, and look at the notes. It's been long enough that I barely remember what happened. The other, I just need to source some maps, and prep the next few encounters. One is ready, but I kind of expect them to make it to another one or two, so I better have it ready just in case. So far the campaign has been going pretty well, with good player engagement, so that's always fun to get to work with.

The other has engagement, but it's also an incredibly complex module, and not very well coded. I'm frequently scrambling to find character sheets and what not. The module itself is very good, but it's also one that requires the DM to do some heavy lifting. Due to schedules, we're still in the early part of the module, and things are still kicking off. It's also a large party, which slows things down a bit.

For now, though, I'm going to drink some coffee and relax and in a bit, I'll call to check on the Princess Cece and see how her night went. Everyone have a stupendous day!
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The first episode of The Vampire Lestat is everything I wanted. There he is, my gloriously messy Brat Prince. Poor impulse control, hiding his insecurities and broken heart by performing hedonism, and yes, my egotistical vampire rock star boyfriend.


There’s a great fan theory going around related to the first scenes, and I agree with it. (It ties into later books of the series, so I won’t go into it. But it makes SO MUCH SENSE.)
 

I haven't gone looking for discussion around this, but I'm curious as to how the show fans who haven't read the books are dealing with the end of the first episode. Because yes, the trailers implied they were Going There, but whoooooo, it's canon in the show, and I kinda want to see the people melting down about OMG
 PROBLEMATIC. 
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Caesar Ya Later (4973 words) by dreamlittleyo
Rating: Mature
Relationships: Ted Lasso/Jamie Tartt, Coach Beard & Ted Lasso
Additional Tags: Post-Season/Series 03, Resolved Sexual Tension, Age Difference, Casual Sex, Finally Getting It Right, more or less, Shameless Jamie Tartt, Exasperated Ted Lasso
Series: Part 8 of Burning and Building Bridges

Summary: After the final game of the season, Ted receives an unexpected visitor with a scandalous request.

Read on AO3...

Or read below the cut... )

 
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It's Tuesday! We survived Monday!

Yesterday was a bit of a slog! Knowing that we had Cece's vet appt kind of made the whole day blah. By the time I got off work, I was definitely over it. I took a fair amount of calls because we were psychotically busy as usual for a Monday. And there just weren't the openings to work on getting some STAT patients in. I did manage to get two in, so that was something. I'm a little pissed with the one site. I had grabbed 2 hours on an MRI machine. I took 30minutes of it. After that patient had been scheduled, they came back and asked if I was using it. I assumed it was the 90min they were asking abotu, as the pt was already scheduled. No, they wanted all of it. They wanted me to move this pt, who has a new scary diagnosis, to 6/15 instead of 6/10. I'm trying to find somewhere else to put her, but she didn't answer when I called with one for today. I'm incandescently angry at them for doing this and annoyed that they've put me in the situation. I'm hoping I come in to some nice cancellations that I can use when I log on.

After work, we tucked Yoda in my sister's room, and took the Princess for her appt. She had been very quiet all day, and not eaten much, so we were a little concerned. Let me tell you, the cat I thought was possibly lethargic? Yeah, she threw the biggest, most polite tantrum. It involved telling us how unhappy she was with our choices in her tiny polite voice, and then flinging herself down dramatically with a delicate little yell. Once we got into the vet, she continued flopping and yelling and added in trying to claw her way out. Fortunately, she's not very bright and was kicking places that would do nothing to aid her.

Verdict, she's a litlte underweight, and her gums and other mucous membranes are a little pale. Aside from that, she seems like a healthy cat. We did get her fluids, and we also had them give her an anti-nausea shot called Cerenia, which will hopefully also act as an appetite stimulant. She got a ton of labwork drawn, including a FELV PCR test which will tell us where she is in her infection. They should be back by Wednesday, and the PCR by Friday.

Once that was done, we took her home and let her get into her closet to hide from her traumatic experience. Then, we flopped on the sofa, feeling like we ran a marathon. The vet was running late, and their waiting room is really busy. It was making me massively overstimulated. I was just so overwhelmed and I wanted to cry.

Later, I kind of snapped at the dog for barking and then took myself to bed, as obviously the overstim hadn't worked it's way out.

When I woke up at about 1 to use the bathroom, the kitty was out of the closet exploring. I asked her if she wanted to come up and sleep with us, and she did jump up, but did not stay for any length of time. Eventually, she wanted to do some more poking around. Hopefully, she at a little something now that the nausea med is in her. If not, I'll ask more about appetite stimulants. She can have some kitty weed as a treat.

Today, I have a virtual doctor appt to discuss Mounjaro and why I hate it and won't be taking it any more. We'll need to see what we can put in it's place. I'm thinking either Jardiance or Trulicity. What I really want is those stem cell treatments in China that can make your own pancreas work again. I know it's still in trials, but goddamn, I'd like that. Maybe in a few years down the road.

The rest of the week is pretty chill. On Thursday, Yoda has his day of beauty, which is good, since he has a few dingleberry's clinging to his butt. Not bad, just fragments of poop. He seems to be perking up from his shot, much less itchy, though he's still scooting his butt a bit.

He's been such a good boy about the kitty. He sniffs the door, but doesn't bark or paw at it. Just sniffs and looks confused. With Boodle, we used this thing that went over the handle, and then a piece slotted into the hole where it would latch, keeping the door open just enough for Boodle to get in and out, but not Yoda. It looks like this, except in black. It's an ingenious little device. Boodle made full use of it, coming to bug us whenever she wanted fresh water.

Cece doesn't seem to like the fountain, so that may be going in the trash. I'll give her a few more days to see if she changes her mind as she comes out more, but if not, it goes. She also wants to be fed under the bed, which makes sense, as it's safeer feeling for her. If it stays that way, then I'll finally be able to put up our second dresser. Which would be awesome, because we have a lot of clothes. Just my underwear alone needs two drawers, though I want to go through them and start discarding some of the older pairs. I have another whole bag that I brought for vacation that's in the top of my closet, because I really didn't need it.

We could also move the socks out of Jess' desk, which would also be good, because we have a lot of those, too. I went a little bugfuck prepping for vacation, it seems. Then, I could move some of the leggings and bike shorts as well. Maybe fold up some of my t-shirts instead of hanging them. Have a drawer for jeans! I only have a few pair, but they take up so much room!

Maybe I'll try to do that this weekend, though we do have some games to play. On Saturday, it's not til 2 for Odyssey of the Dragonlords and on Sunday it's at 12pm.

I put in to work a couple of Saturdays in July. I hadn't worked any in May or June. May because of vacation, and June because the sign up came out while I was in Juneau, and I wasn't checking my work mail. We'll see if I get both or just one. I'd prefer just one, if I'm being honest. I like the extra money, and this would be a nice extra, though I don't know how much. It'll be the first time I've worked a Saturday since my promotion.

I'm also working 7/3, which because the 4th of July is on a Saturday, is considered a holiday. As such, I will get time and a half, plus 8 hours of Holiday PTO to be used as I see fit. Plus, it'll probably, maybe be quieter. Fridays are usually not bad, and with the holiday, I can hope things stay calm. That will also be a nice little bump. The 8 hours PTO is choice though. Normally, they'd pay out the 8 hours from our holiday bank to compensate for the day we were closed. But in this case, since we work it, we just get that 8 hours. So really, it's like getting double time and a half. I'm looking forward to it.

Tonight, I believe I'm going to make the steaks I bought, or possibly the lobster tails. They're the little ones, so I got two boxes. Add to that a baked potato and I think it's a good dinner. The steaks could go in the freezer and come out on Friday. Yoda has a vet appointment next week, so that will be fun. I'm hoping they're not quite as crazy as they were yesterday. Yoda would not have been a fun addition to that mess yesterday. He would have been barking at all the dogs and choking himself trying to go meet them. It's never a good time, but that was intense.

He'll need all his vaccines to be updated, so that he's good to go for daycare on 6/20 while we go see the Rocky Horror in NYC.

For today, I will try to get some people in, and do my work. There's a couple of dates coming up that I'm going to be covering for the other PAS III's, so I'll be busy those days at least. I think one is next week and the other is the week after. I need a crash course in what I need to do, but I don't think it'll be a problem. I appreciate the trust.

I'm hoping the insane call volumes lately will convince the powers that be that we need more phone people. We've got one position that's soon to be posted, but that's been delayed a dozen times. What we really need is like 5-6 good people who can move calls, because yesterday at times, we had 50 calls waiting in queue. It's just been brutal. And even if we all sped up our calls, there's no way we can get to them in a timely manner. We could really use the help.

And it would help if they fixed the thing that verifies the patient's insurance. Sometimes, it takes forever to verify, and you're stuck between clicking through it and moving the call along, or waiting forever and having to small talk the pt, or getting off the phone, and then having to wait in aftercall for it to finish. Either way, it's not good. We get a report card of how many times we bypassed the verification. But on the other hand, we're getting killed. Also a problem is our Financial Team. Theoretically, they're there to ask questions and get answers while the pt is on the phone. In practice, it can take them upwards of 10 minutes to reply, assuming they do at all. It's another thing that drags out our call length and lets that volume build even more.

Add on to it, is that sometimes we have to send emails to financial or to leadership for various questions or to request authorizations, which takes time, and I'm really not sure what they expect. We have complex jobs that require us to use complex tools to schedule appropriately, and that takes time.

I feel for both the people who are primarily taking calls, and also the bosses, who are getting pressure because of our shitty service level. We're going to be doing a recognition committee soon, so I'm hoping to at least make people feel a little more appreciated.

And since you made it to the bottom, here's your moment of Cece Zen.



Everyone have an awesome Tuesday!
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It's very early. We ended up playing our 5:30pm game at 7pm, wso I'm a little but tired. I'm having trouble keeping my eyes open. I will muddle through.

I will wake up with the application of lots of coffee. I need all the bean juice. Today I have work, then I will take the little princess to the vet to be checked out. She's been a little bit quiet, so I wonder if she's having some depression, or even a little FELV flare. Jess said her gums are a little pale, so she might need a fluid bolus, or an iron shot, or eve a blood transfusion. Never having had Cece, we don't know how pale her gums are normally, thig pale, or if she needs some support. I'm a little bit worried, but we'll give her whatever support she needs.

Just a couple of little pictures of her today. After starting the day on the bed, she spent a lot of the day in her little area in the closet, only coming out lorn enough to say hello a few times.


Portrait of a brave girl on the bed.


A little gargoyke sutting by the desk


The rare sighting of the closet cryptid.

I'm a a little worried about the vets, but it could just be that we haven't figured out the little cryptid's konami code yet.

She was very sweet while she was circulating through the room. I gave her the tiniest peice of duck and she scarfed it down, going so far as to shake her head and breaking her prey's (nonexistent) neck. It was super cute and endearing. I may pull her out some chicken breasts and cook them for her. If we need to feed her salmon oil and chicken, that'w what we shall do.

She does get judgy sometimes. It is also cute. When the dog barks, she kinda looks at the door like ""stinky dog." She'll turn it on us when the food and snacks don't seem to meet her standards, though we did get her to eat a few bites of I and Love and You Xoxo's Whitefish and tuna, so that was good.

Then, she fucked off to the closet, and I ran up to the local crab shack because I wanted a crabcake and some steamed shrimp. The crabcake was sadly very mid, so I might have to consider getting a crabcake dinner from one of the good restaurants, just to get what I want.

Then, with game snacks in hand, we settled in to play Marchen. It went really well, but I think the plot may have been over complicated. A few people lost track here and there, so I will try to make future plot points more straight forward. It did lead to the best exchange of the day, though so I am not at all sorry for it.

The total asshat of a ruler in this land asked if the werewolf his wife had just killed was the beast. One character said yes, and one said no. No firm plan had been decided, and it's super like this party to contradict each other. Honestly, had they not mentioned it, I would have just assumed that it wasn't a particularly masterful bit of roleplay.

They do have wrap up of the current country, but after that, they can move on to the next country, with minimal interruptions on the way. Sadly, we don't play again until the 27th, schedules being what they are. Though the 14th seems to be open, so I did ask about that in chat just to make sure that there was actually sometihng else on that date.

After game I determined that I wanted dim sum for the next game and put in an order.

The second game got pushed back from it's normal 5:30pm time to 7pm, as I mentioned, so during the afternoon, we got stuff done. We napped. That was what we got done. Then, I heated up some dim sum and peking duck, and prepared for game. It was very tasty and sustained me through the three hours. *g*. I went to bed stuffed.

The game was also fun. We're going to kill some hags, but first we got waylaid by displacer beasts. This is the campaign that I play the slightly pyromaniac Bladesinger wizard. Sadly, his fireball was not useful. However, Steel Wind Strike kicked ass. I love it when I get to cast it. It's a multiple enemy attack that does massive damage if it hits. He was about 50/50 on whether it hit, but that still meant that he hit them like 6 times over both uses of the spell. He's only got one more high-level spells left, so hopefully the hag fight isn't too bad.

I woke up at 6 and the

Had a really good day yesterday. I didn't do that much, but it felt stuffed with fun things. It was actually a pretty good weekend.

Today, I shall call the new vet and see if they would be able to see Cece today. IF not, we'll do one visit at the current vet, and then move onto the new.

I'd rather go with the new vet from the start, but I also want the baby seen today (especially since I already took two hours off of work).

Yoda has a grooming appt at 10:30am that Jess will take him to. Depending on when he's finished, either Jess or I will pick him up, and then it will be off to the vet for Cece.

He's been such a good boy about the new cat. He'll sniff at the suddnely closed door, but he doesn't bark or growl. He's just curious. I'm very proud of him. Of course, she's also been her dainty very quiet self. Even her meow isn't very loud.

I did posit a question to the bigger server. I had donated capital to a group of potential new builders. And they were building cabins in the Western Mountains of Maryland. They started construction recently, and tomorrow, it is time to book your stays. I asked if people would be interested in doing a D&D weekend where we all went up to this three bedroom cabin and have two and a half days of D&D. It wouldn't be like playing through. Good lord, I'm 53, I don't have that kind of stamina. But like four-6 three hour sessions. We could play a mini campaign in that amount of time. I think it would be a lot of fun, and people have agreed, so I guess tomorrow, I'm putting in for a cabin next summer/fall. We don't have to choose dates right now, it's just making the statement of intent that I would like to book for this number of days and paying a deposit. In August, we'll chose dates and book the cabin.

I definitely want to allow time between sessions, because these are going to be luxyry modern cabins complete with a hot tub, a sauna and a cold plunge pool. The interior looks amazing. A full kitchen, plus outdoor grill. They'll even do your grocery run for you and have it waiting, or have meals waiting for you. We'll probably pack in our own groceries. I don't want to stomp on people's food choices after all. A quick trip to Sam's Club and we'll be good to go.

I think it'll be a lot of fun! I do enjoy playing in person, and these would all be my people, so it should be awesome.

And now, I shall drink some more coffee and try to wake up. Everyone have the best Monday you can Monday.
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Well, this morning started out on a high note. I woke up, went to get my coffee, realized I hadn't take my inhaler, and went back into the bedroom only to see a smoll kitty on the foot of our bed with us.

Princess Cece has been mostly hiding in the closet, coming out once in a while for love, so this is a bit step. She chose to come out and sleep on the bed with her new humans! She's so brave! She's adjusting a little bit at a time, but she doesn't seem to be having the stress reaction her foster was afraid of. When she was left at the vet to be euthanized, she needed a saline bolus to help her, so we've been watching her like a hawk. But she seems to be okay.

A handful of pictures of the baby. )
I'm not sure her vision is very good, because she wouldn't follow the little string toy at all, though if I let the feather brush her, I got a paw. But she's still a bit traumatized, so we'll give her a little while and try again.

I was thinking there was no chance that she'd sit with Jess during game, but now I'm just not so sure. She might come over and sit.

So far, this is the sweetest natured, most polite cat in all of existence. She is nothing but love. Yesterday, she wanted ear rubbed so badly that she shoved her head and my hand down to the floor so she could get maximum pressure on my scritches. I'm going to have to grow my nails again so she can get the good stuff.

In case you couldn't tell, I'm kind of in love.

Yesterday was mostly spent with her. We'd cycle in and out of the room, even while she was hiding and talk to her to help get her used to our voices. When she'd come out, we'd sit with her and give her all the love and tell her how brave she is.

But she spent most of the day in the closet, so I wasn't expecting her to be on our bed this morning. I'm so happy.

She went on a little hunger strike yesterday that was apparently "I want my kibble." She wouldn't eat any of the wet food we were giving her more than a little nibble, and we were getting concerned. We were told that she was a picky eater, but she wasn't eating anything. The vets I've found online say to give a wet food diet, because it increases hydration, but Celeste had a different opinion. Jess gave her kibble and she immediately ate half a bowl. Then she drank some water. So that made us feel better.

Having a FELV cat shouldn't always be so high stress, it's just sometimes when they're stressed, they can have a little crash. But she's doing really well!

Sorry for babbling about her so much. She's my new special interest.

I did go out for lunch with a work friend, which was nice. I had some things I'd gotten for her from Canada/Alaska, so it was good. I had cream of crab soup and meat lasagna, both of which were really good, but good lord, my stomach made me pay. I had such nausea and stomach cramps afterwards. Fucking Mounjaro getting in it's last licks.

One thing I have noticed is that if I'm really nauseous after a heavy meal, sometimes eating something light can help ease it some. So a few hours later, I had sushi and miso soup and that seemed to settle things down.

Hopefully, the Mounjaro will work its way out of my system in the next few days, and this will all be a thing of the past.

Today, we have two games, Marchen at 12pm and Nine Omens at 5:30pm, depending on traffic for one of our players who's coming home from down south. It's all down to DC and Baltimore traffic. Which probably means the game is doomed, because our beltways do not fuck around, even on the weekend.

I'm looking forward to both very much, so I'm hoping that things behave.

We're reconsidering whether we want to take Cece to our current vet. Jess doesn't like driving and the current vet is on a busy road, and can be difficult to get in and out of. If it looks like she's going to be going regularly, it might be worth it to switch her to a new, more easily accessible place. Also, this was the place we've been going, so it's about a 20 minute drive to get there, which might stress her out. So we're thinking on it. I'll call the vet we're looking at tomorrow early and see if we could get her in there in the near future for a check up.

We have an appointment at the old vet tomorrow, so if the new one doesn't have one right away, we can always go there and then switch. The new vet is about 9 minutes away and not on a main road, so Jess would be able to take her by themselves if they want to see her more frequently for weigh ins and what not. (They found a few people online whose vet wanted to see their FELV+ cat monthly, so we're preparing for that. Other's just do every 3 or 6 months, so we'll see what they say.)

I'm so glad I called out of work so that we could get her on Friday. Today would have been very difficult and she'd have had less support from both of us. This way, we can keep an eye on her and give her love when she wants it, and just be there to enjoy the new baby. Tomorrow, I'll go to work and spend a little time with her on my breaks and lunch, and then quality time in the evening.

I'm still debating on going to Sam's Club today. It'll be the 7th circle of hell, but we do need toilet paper and I really want to get Cece some lobster to try. She probably won't want it, but I'd like to see. We have some portions of halibut that are in the freezer, so I may pull them out and make them tonight so she can taste that. I may just order the four pack of little frozen lobster tails and have them delivered. They're not quite as tasty as the fresh, but Cece won't know the difference. Or if I want to make something simple, we have a fisherman's pie that is basically like a halibut pot pie. I've wanted to try it, so maybe we'll put one of those in. That would be an easy dinner between games. I'm not sure how it'll be, but I'm willing to try it. If it's not to my taste, I still have half a portion of lasagna.

And now, I believe I shall drink my coffee and go back in and pet a kitty some more. Everyone have an outstanding Sunday.
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Well, that didn't go anyhow near I had planned it. In the best possible way.

I went to work as usual yesterday, and then I got the bright idea that I could just take a half day of work, put Yoda in the bedroom and we could go to get the Princess Celeste. Jess nixed that one, because they didn't want to leave Yoda alone for that long. But then I came up with another option. We could move his allergy shot up earlier, and then leave around 5:30, which would only leave him alone for a max of 30 minutes. Jess agreed and the foster was up for it, so I called the vet, and moved Yoda's shot appointment up a bit.

Yoda did not enjoy his allergy shot. He yelped like they murdered him when they lifted him onto the table. Little dog HATES being picked up. But he got it and should be feeling much less itchy soon. Then we had a bit of time to pet and praise him until he settled down, and then it was time!

The drive to York wasn't bad at all. Aside from some traffic right around our house, we managed to miss everything, and pulled into the parking lot of the Petsmart right around 6:35pm. Our appointment was at 7, so we chilled for a little while.

On the way down the street to the store, there were people in chairs and on the back of pickups lining the street. IT was technically for a parade of street rod cars. but it felt like these people were here to cheer us on as we went to meet little Celeste.

She and her foster arrived a few minutes later, and we went to a room to let her out of her carrier. Needless to say, she was a wee bit overwhelmed and shy. But oh my lord, she's cute. After a little while, she got brave, and came out and sniffed around the room, gracing me with a rub against my calf and giving Jess the all important head newf and laying next to them for a few moments.

After a bit, the foster asked what we thought, and we immediately said yes. Of course there was paperwork, but only one sheet. Her adoption fee was only $75. I gave them $140, because that was ridiculously low, and they do good work, taking care of bottle babies and sick kitties, so they can put that towards the next cat who needs extra TLC.

Then, we drove home. Cece was mostly quiet the whole drive, to the point that we kept peeking to make sure she was stil in there. Every once in a while, she gave a very tiny polite mew to let us know that she wasn't sure she liked being stuck in the carrier. I, who was braced for the full on yowling song of her people, wasn't sure what to do with such a sweet girl.

Then we got her home, and sat her carrier on the bed, and opened it up. She was again tentative, but eventually came out. I offered her some treats which were scarfed, and she ate a little food before going under the bed. When we looked for her before bed, she had disappeared thoroughly, and wherever she went is where she stayed. Hopefully, today she'll come out and investigate a bit.


The happy family.

As a result, we cancelled most of our plans for the weekend. I am still going out to meet with a riend for lunch, but Jess has a phone call scheduled with their brother, so they will be hanging out here with kitty. When I come back, Jess will get a little break, and I will sit in with her. If she seems to want company, we'll just stay there. She has water and food under the bed, so if she doesn't want to come out just yet, she doesn't have to. If she wants more quiet time, maybe we'll go to the movies this afternoon, but we'll see.

Tomorrow, we have games planned, so we'll be at home all day for her, and Jess will be in the bedroom at their desk, which apparently is something she's enjoyed with her fosters. The husband played video games, and she would sit on his lap or right next to him. We're hoping she does that for us as well.

All in all, this weekend is about baby.

She's so soft and pretty. She has the tiny pale ring around her eyes like little spectacles, and the softest fur, and the tiniest little meow. (That will probably change once she settles in.).

She'll go to the vet on Monday and get more info on her health and see what her FELV status is. Hopefully we get good news, but if not, we'll take care of her whatever comes.

From what we've seen so far, she is the most chill, laid back cat on the planet. I'm looking forward to seeing if that holds, or if she'll be a little shit once she settles in.

Now that the sun is coming up, I may take her some fresh food, and see if I can spot a baby. We gave her the familiar food last night, but today I may mix in some of the bougie food to see if it will tempt her. She's apparently a picky eater who likes to graze instead of eating the whole can in one sitting, so we'll be watching to make sure she eats enough. We also have enough treats and toppers to give her variety. My favorite is the krill mix that has tiny little shrimps in it. I've slipped Yoda some shrimps and he loves them.

I also would like to get to Sam's Club and get some lobster tails, so I can cook them up for us, and then see if Cece would like some tidbits. She's going to be so very spoiled, even if she doesn't know it yet. (I also need coffee creamer, so I'm not just going to get lobster for the cat!)

I just cant even with her little face. I want to do all the snuggling, and I have to wait for her to feel comfortable. Hopefully she'll come out today and let us shower her with all the affection. And pictures. As soon as pictures are obtained, more will be forthcoming.

For now, I will drink my coffee and let both her and Jess rest.

I know my brother in law will be over this afternoon to meet her, but we'll see if Ms. Celeste would like to make an appearance.

But, hey y'all, we have a cat again. I need to scan her vet records in for both our vet and also the apartments, so I can formally add her to the lease, so that'll be sometime this weekend. No rush.

retro technology

Jun. 5th, 2026 06:00 pm
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I'm seriously thinking of looking for a CD portable stereo. Yes, a boombox. I want to listen to some of the CDs I own, and I don't want to have to fight with iTunes/Apple Music to put music on my iPod. There are enough weird, incomprehensible steps to get new music I own onto my iPod, to the point that I'm going to need to set aside a day to see what I can manage.

So! Yeah, I'll add a boombox to my mental list of items I always look for at thrift stores.

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Retro fashion technology: I've been getting into clip-on earrings. Mostly because I want to wear BIG earrings, and some experimenting has led me to the fact that BIG earrings are more comfortable as clips than as pierced.

Did you know that interesting clip-on earrings aren't easily found at thrift stores anymore? Just add that to the pile of reasons why thrift flippers/resellers vaguely annoy me. That, and Goodwill keeping their good merchandise for their auction sites. Grrrr.

 

Prompt: Caiyi Town

Jun. 5th, 2026 06:29 pm
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This week's prompt is: Caiyi Town.

You have until midnight your time on Friday, June 12, to answer this prompt. Please post your fills of the prompt as separate entries to the community (i.e. not replies to this entry), tagged with the prompt tag. You may post multiple standalone drabbles per entry in addition to drabble sequences and series.

As a reminder, this community has no official presence elsewhere. You are encouraged to share the prompt on social media, if you so desire. It may take me a bit to create the AO3 collection, so please be patient.

Also, I'm going to go ahead and drop a link to the prompt suggestions post here. New suggestions are always, always welcome.
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It's finally Friday! I think the next few days are going to be busier than my average workday, tbh. I'm going to get to Monday and be like "What do you mean the weekend's over. I had not weekend." It's good stuff, but there's a lot of it.

Today is a good example. I've got work, including the hour+ manager's bitch-athon meeting, which is always good entertainment. Then, during lunch break, it's off to go get the pills from the pharmacy. After work, we have to take a very itchy dog to the vet to get his Cytopoint shot, so he'll feel better. Then, we have the Amazing Digital Circus finale at the movie theater this evening. Fortunately, that's not supposed to have any previews, so we should be out right around 8:30pm. Then it'll be off to bed at a reasonable hour.

Saturday, it's up early to take Yoda to his summer camp so that everyone can do stuff and he won't be stuck at home moping. Then it's back to load up the car for a later trip to the storage unit. Then, we're off to the movies again, this time for He-Man. We all know that I am here for a campy sword and sorcery movie. Then, we come back, I go to have lunch with a friend while Jess catches up with their brother. Once I'm back, we'll be taking more stuff to the storage unit, and then coming back to finish preparing the house for our new overlord.

Sunday, we have a little time in the morning, and then we're going to have game at 11, and as soon as we finish, we're on our way up to York, PA to meet with her fabulousness. Then, providing that she likes us, we head home with Celeste, or as I've been calling her, Princess Cece. Once we get her back and settled, we may have another game, depending on another player's travel speed.

Then it will be bedtime and we will see if our little princess lets us sleep at all. I'm braced.

Yesterday, I had work, then at lunch I built a cat tree that came with absolutely no instructions. Years of IKEA had prepared me, and I had it together in about 20 minutes.



It's not enormous, but I think it'll be a good height. The top piece is just above Jess' desk, so if she wants to cuddle during games, she can just hop over to pester them. We were told that she liked to sit on the foster's lap while she gamed, which would be awesome. More importantly, it seems like it would be an easy one to get up on, just stair steps to get to the cushy top. I hope she likes to use it to lounge in the sunbeams. We get pretty strong and warm morning sun, so it's a good place to bask.

I also got her a new drinking fountain, which I got set up.



We were told that she eats the tender bit kibble and then wet kitten food. She's very picky, but the rescue is operated on a shoestring, so they can't get terribly adventurous with her food. It's strictly donations or the cheap stuff.

I did get some of the cheap stuff that she likes, but I also got her some good food, with premium toppers and then a sampler of the seriously bougie fresh food, so we'll see what she likes. I would really like to see her gain a couple of pounds.

And I'm excited to occasionally slip her people food, when we have good stuff. Boodle loved the occasional bits of lobster tail or halibut or cod, and I wonder if Celeste will like it.

You'll notice in that picture that she's got a lot of bowls already because of the uncertainty of what she'll eat. But, everything I've looked up says that FELV+ cats should be on entirely wet food diets for the hydration and the higher fat content, so we might go in that direction.

We've got a few more things coming today, and I believe that is it for what Princess Celeste shall need. A new litter box, a scooper, and a mat for that water fountain. and the two bed/caves. One shall go in the closet, and one under the bed, so that baby will have places to feel safe.

Are we overcompensating for the knowledge that we might only have a little while with her? Maybe. But that's okay. She deserves all the love and spoiling after what the prior adopters put her through. She's going to be our little princess for as long as she lives, be it one, two, five or ten years.

In looking up FELV, I've discovered that the median age to survive after diagnosis is about 4 years. But, I found that other cats lived 7, 10 or the oldest, 22 years after being infected as a kitten.

I'm 100% behind 15+ years with Princess Cece.

Right now, I'm just impatient. I want to know everything about her. I want to know what her full meow sounds like. So far, we've heard a little mew and some chirps, but I want to hear that Siamese yell. I want to know if she's a polite kitty, or if she likes to knock things off tables. I want to know what her fur feels like, and if she likes being kissed on the top of her little head.

I especially want to know how she likes to be loved. Is the belly a trap? I got her a handful of new toys, including a water play mat. We'll see if she likes that. Is she going to get zoomies in the middle of the night? Should I expect to be run over repeatedly at 2am? I want to know everything about her.

Monday, I'm leaving work early to take her to her vet appt. I'm nervous about it, but also have a "what will be, will be." philosophy.

It's kind of adorable. When I started browsing Petfinder, Jess wasn't sure they were ready for a new kitty. I showed them some pictures, put in a couple of applications. But when they responded about Celeste, Jess got excited. Now they're as all in as I am. Just ride or die for this little cat we've only seen pictures and video of. They are participating in preparing to spoil a baby.

I don't wanna wait another 2 days to go get her! I want her now. And then I want the day off to spend time with her. I'm thinking about taking Monday off. I've got the time, and it might be nice for her to have both of us. Plus, then I could have a day to crash. I'm pretty sure I've got the time, so I might ask my manager about that. I need to put in another hour of PTO for the week after next as Yoda is due for his vaccines and needs his checkup, so I'll have to double check my time.

I was going to do both vet appointments next week, but then that seemed like a lot to deal with.

He's going to seriously whine about being left behind on Monday while we take her to the vet. I didn't want to deal with taking him the very next day.

I'm debating on what we're doing for dinner tonight. With taking the dog for his allergy shot, I won't have a ton of time to cook, so it'll probably be snacks at the movie and my sister will be on her own. Maybe I'll order something for 3:30, so we can have an early dinner.

I've also got to make Yoda's food today and find time to bag and seal it. They didn't have some of his meat in stock, so I'm going to have to use some ground goat instead of chunks. I don't know what kind of gravy that'll make, but we'll see. Next time, I'll just make sure to indicate that if they don't have lamb, it can also be goat meat.

I've also got the cat's bougie food that's supposed to come today, though as it is currently showing New Jersey, I doubt it. It'll probably come tomorrow.

Same, sadly for our coffee. We're getting low on Tim Hortons, and might have to use some of our inferior coffee. It was supposed to come today as well, but also appears to be in NJ. Maybe Fedex can do it, but we'll see.

The few other pet things we ordered should be coming today, at least. The more set up I have things, the happier I am. It looks like her collar and dress are going to be coming next week sometime, which is fine. It's not a deal breaker. I believe she comes with a collar, and I have a little harness coming for when she goes to the vet's office. She's going to be in her carrier, but I believe in being doubly safe.

Oh, and then on Tuesday, I get to have a virtual visit with my primary care doctor to discuss why I'm going off Mounjaro and what the next option shall be. I'm leaning towards something like Trulicity or Jardiance. I know some of them have the same issues, but hopefully not to the same extent.

Okay, I need to put in an order for something for breakfast for me. I forgot to get eggs, so I can't make myself breakfast. I'm debating between putting in an order for eggs to come today, or waiting til tomorrow and making a quick stop at Sam's Club, since it's right by the storage unit. I could get some meat, and maybe even a few lobster tails so that the princess can try a little taste.

Okay, time for me to get myself together. Everyone have a most excellent Friday!
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Happy Thursday!

I'm so glad that the only places I need to go today are both air conditioned. They're not up to my levels of frosty, but but it's better than nothing. Today, unlike yesterday, I will not be sitting outdoors for over 2 hours int the heat. But more about that later. I have two things to do today. 1. go get our pills, and 2. take some stuff to the storage unit so kitty will have more room. The pharmacy is important, but the storage unit is vital. We've got winter clothes, and suitcases and a Christmas tree to get out of the house. We want the good Princess Celeste to have plenty of room.

When I expressed frustration that we had four more days until we got to meet her, her foster mama offered to meet tonight. It's tempting, but we're not ready. Plus we have a lot going on this weekend, and I'd hate to leave her the first full day.

So, Sunday it is. How can I possibly wait to pick up this baby?



I love her foster mother. I had asked if she had any video or audio of her talking. which she's sent. But she's continued to send photos and video of her. They're adorable, and I appreciate it so much.

We got more info on her background. She was adopted in 2022 by what was assumed to be a lovely couple. They passed all the background check and vets and references. They had her for 3 years, before she tested positive for FELV. They immediately wanted to euthanize, but the vet worked with hte shelter, and let them know. They hurried over, and she was saved. (The people have since turned to backyard breeding to make some cash, so they're not great people in general.) She's been back with them for 8 months, so she'she's about 4 years old. I was already grumpy at these people when I thought they'd surrendered her. But no, instead they were going to euthanize a perfectly healthy cat who may never show signs of FELV. Also as presumed, they got the cheap test, which has a 40% fals positive on healthy cats.

I mean, maybe on Monday, our vet will say "yes, she has it." It's what I'm expecting on the PCR test. Then, we'll make plans on how to keep her as healthy as possible for as long as possible.

I went insane on buying. Princess Cece got like four packages yesterday. Chewy is doing little backflips, I swear. Also Petco and Amazon. She's got a ton of food, meal toppers, treats, churus. And more coming today, I think. She has her bougie food coming and her cat tree, and maybe a fountain to drink out of and her princess dress (which I repeat: if she doesn't want to be a cat who wears clothes, she certainly doesn't have to.

Even her foster was saying that they're kind of limited to what's donated and what's on sale food wise, so she's going to be in for a bit of a shock at the level she's to be spoiled. Last night, I ordered two cat bed/caves for her to hide in if she needs to. They're both very nice and she can curl up in either and feel safe. One is a cute felted orb. The opening is kind of high on the side, so she'll be able to either peek out or snuggle down out of sight. The second is made like a cat food can, with the top just a tiny bit raised for the best hiding places. She's going to be SO spoiled. And hopefully, Ms. Picky Eater will find her groove and become spherical kitty!

We'll keep it within reason, but we're going to make this cat round.

Yesterday was a busy day. I worked from 8-12, then went over to the Patient Access Picnic. Last year, our table was behind the speaker, this time in front of. Even though we were about 50 feet away, good lord it was loud. You could barely hear yourself think, and to talk to someone, you had to yell, so that made it even louder. I came home with a screaming headache. The company was lovely, including a couple of my old IKEA friends, J and M. I helped M get hired in Radiology. I have kept in touch via facebook messenger, but it was really nice to see her. The food was okay. Hamburgers and hot dogs, BBQ chicken, pasta salad, corn and baked beans. The chicken was a little dry, but the sauce was good, so that was something. I was severely nauseous when I left, but the Mounjaro did not make anything return to sender, so that's good. All in all, glad I went, to see M if nothing else, but lord, I wish they'd turn the music down. Of course, next week I'm going to be in another loud overstimulating environment, taking a turn at the Hopkins Pride booth.

After the picnic, I'd planned on getting the pills, but the beltway was backed way up on both sides. I think I'll probably try to go at lunch. I got home a little after 3. Of course, being me, I'd offered to work the last two hours of the day in case we were crazy. (Which we were.). It was a lot of fun with the headache, but I got through it.

I got a certificate from the Head of Radiology in the Hospital for always being willing to help out with problems. It came with points, so soon I'll be able to buy some other silly, useless thing.

Tomorrow, we have to set up the cat tree. (Unless it gets here early and we do it tonight) We should also test the fountain (Depending on when that arrives). Oh, and probably make another trip to the storage unit. We have a lot of shit between the 3 suitcases, a big cooler, Christmas stuff and winter clothes. It'll be nice to have the big suitcases out, since we won't need any of them for 5 months. I'm pretty sure the overnight trip at the end of July can be handled in the Nomade Lane carry on and maybe my tiny kid-sized rolly bag. The beginning of October might need a rolly bag for each of us, since the con lasts 3 days. And CONfab will definitely need a rolly bag and maybe a big bag.

Saturday, we have to drop the puppers off for his day care. We have He-Man in the morning at 10, Im going out to lunch with a friend after, and then we shall work on getting anything else ready for the princess. We'll change the sheets. Shame the new comforter hasn't come. I'll vacuum, and wipe things up, just so there's a little less Boodle hair on things.

Sunday, we have game at 11-2, then we're driving up to York, PA to meet Miss Celeste. And as long as she doesn't hate us, we're coming home with a kitty. Her foster has made it clear that she's ours if we want her. So that's good. We were both a little worried that the foster would hate us, but we've been texting and she's decided that we're good people. So yay!

I'm a wee bit nauseous this morning, but we'll see how it goes through the day. I will nudge Jenn about the PTO I put in for both Celeste and Yoda's appointments this week. Celeste is Monday and Yoda's is Wednesday. I may call today to see if we could nudge his cytopkine shot up to today or tomorrow, because he's been itching something fierce and I don't want him to get an infection.

All in all, the beanside/nilchance house is all in for this kitty. I'd say the kitty talk will drop off when we get her, but I'd probably be lying.

One thing they did mention about her is that she loves to sit next to you or on your lap while you game. Jess is so excited about that. Boodle would lay on the cat tree next to her desk, or on the desk while Jess played D&D. Depending on one of our other group member's travel plans, we may have a game right after we get her home, so she'll get her chance pretty quickly, though it might take a couple of weeks for her to get that comfy.

Or, maybe she will be one of those cats who just settles right in with no fuss, I have no idea. It's all up to her.

Okay, going to stop babbling and drink some coffee. Everyone have an amazing Thursday!

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Jun. 3rd, 2026 02:30 pm
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Day TWO of missing work because of a migraine. Which, of course, in addition to being  a horrible experience now comes with a side of anxiety and paranoia about job security. Sure, Brain Raccoons, let’s do that.

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Last night was the “The Vampire Lestat: One Night Only” concert in NYC, and every image or video snippet from it is amazing. Sam Reid truly has been possessed by the spirit of Lestat.  Not being at the concert is going to be a regret for the rest of my life, which I KNOW is a small, inconsequential thing to regret when balanced against everything else going on, but … I’ve been waiting for something like this since I was a teen, so of course it stings. 

However, I’m very lucky in that a friend with media news connections went and picked up some swag for me!

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It's Wednesday, and I have a freaking work picnic in 83 degree weather. Oh joy. I do want to go, it's just gonna be hot and sunny and my stomach is Mounjaro pissed.

I think I'm done with the Mounjaro. I spent 20 minutes praying to the porcelain god yesterday because it got pissy. It was not fun, and I've come to the conclusion that it was just not sustainable. This was the lower dose, and it still made me puke. I just cant do it any more. There's a few other meds we can try, so hopefully one of them doesn't make me sick. Next stop Trulicity or Januvia. I put a somewhat less strong note to my doctor, but when she replies, I think I'll let her know that I won't be taking more Mounjaro on Sunday. It's just too much. I can't spend 5 out of 7 days so nauseous that I'm functionally useless. By the time I get through work, I'm to tired to do anything. It's not fair to me, and it's not fair to my family. I have a friend who's on the same dose as I am, so it won't go to waste. I'll just put it in a cooler and take it to the picnic to give her.

So yeah, yesterday sucked, aside from getting a couple of videos of the kitty. First one was of her very little meow. The second is of her little chitters.

She's been sunning herself in the warm sun, so she has that little ring around her eyes, because Siamese have color changing fur--lighter in the warm, darker in the cold.

From what I've gotten from her foster, this meeting is a formality. As long as we're not axe murderers, this is our kitty. The only thing that could be a problem is if she doesn't like us. I've already gone in and ordered supplies--food, treats, toys, a cat tree that'll put her just above Jess' desk for easy access. We were told that she likes to be close especially when you're gaming or at the computer, so that way she can be close, and if she wants, it's an easy hop to bug Jess. I also may have bought her a pretty velvet collar and a tiny dress. If she doesn't like it, she doesn't have to wear it, but I figured we'd see.

Yesterday the first bit of things for the princess arrived. She now has food bowls, and a plate for the wet food. Still to come is her big drinking fountain. If it doesn't come in time, she can use Boodle's bowl for a little while until it shows up. It's going to be hard waiting for Sunday. I really just want to meet her now and bring her home. But we need to wait for everything to get here and get set up, and that won't be til Thursday.

Yesterday was a clusterfuck at work. The managers were all down at a meeting at the hospital, so the Island of Misfit Toys (including me) were left in charge. I was very busy, and the nausea didn't help. I ended up leaving about an hour early. I'll make it up today, since I'm working a couple of hours of OT. Plus I went in at 7:30 yesterday to help out.

I think I did a reasonably good job. I got all my stuff done, so that's good. Today should be slightly less insane. We'll head out at noon to go to the picnic. It's only about 10 minutes from our house, so I can take my time and change my clothes before I go, since the picnic technically doesn't start til 1. I'll probably get there early and claim a table in the name of Radiology. Only one of my fellow IKEA denizens is coming, but it'll be good to see her. It's been a few years.

Then, home to work another 2 hours. They didn't have many people coming back after the picnic, so I offered to leave a few minutes early and come home and finish the day til 6. It's usually not too bad during that time frame, but we'll see. Afterwards, I shall open packages, and see what more things have come for the princess. Today her food, litter and carrier should be arriving.

I think the cat tree comes tomorrow. Jess finally took Boodle's cat tree out to the dumpster. I know that was hard. That tree has lasted through so much. But it was time for a new one for a new princess. I'll try to put it together tomorrow. It doesn't look terribly difficult (Famous last words), so hopefully we'll get it up without any major issues.

Then, we'll just have two and a half days to wait through to get to the kitty. On Friday, we've got Amazing Digital Circus, and Saturday we have the He-Man movie, which is looking promising. I've seen lots of reviews calling it "silly fun." That sounds like my kind of movie.

Since we settled on Celeste, I've been doing a ton of research on FELV. When we take her to the vet on Monday, I'd like to get a PCR test, to definitively tell us whether she's got abortive, regressive or progressive FELV. She's a healthy kitty for the moment, and the most common test has a 40% false positive rate, so we'll see. Not getting my hopes up, but it would be awesome. The PCR is more expensive, so I'm kind of assuming that owners who returned her would be doing the cheaper test. The big thing is to keep her indoors so she doesn't pick up any infections and to minimize stress.

Whatever she has, we'll love her very much while she's with us, no matter how long that is. She'll be pampered and given the best of food, and loved. Hell, I already love her. I'm definitely taking a churu to the meeting to facilitate a good introduction. "Hello, we have food."

I went in yesterday and ordered some fresh food from Smalls. We've been told that she's a super picky eater, so I figured I'd see if fresh food would make her happier. Even if I just use it as a topper for the rest. Why shouldn't she be just as expensive as Yoda's food?

The fountain says it'll be here today, but I'm betting tomorrow as it's still in shipment created status. So I can puzzle through that while I'm busy figuring out the cat tree. I think we'll set it up right away, so we can get used to the running water noise before she arrives.

Sunday will be busy! First, we have game at 11, then right after, we shall be heading up to Petsmart to meet her. Then, it's back for a another potential game. I figure it's not a bad idea for her to be introduced to her room and then left alone with just Jess while they game. It gives her a little bit of time to settle in. Of course, we're going to have a little bit of time when we first bring her home to introduce her to my sister, but once that's done, she can have some quiet time. That'll lead directly into bed time, so more low key time. I'll wake up at 4, and see if she's interested in some love and give her food, but again, it'll be low key. Then Jess will spend most of the day in the room on Monday, so she'll have company and hopefully start to bond. I'll take their place at 4:30 for my own bonding time.

Can you tell I'm a little excited for this girl? I want to get my hands on her plush fur and love on her. I want to hear that little meow in person. I've missed having a cat. I don't know how Yoda is going to do with her, but we'll work through it. Boodle mostly stayed with Jess during the day, and then had the run of the house at night, so we might try that. I want to see if she's the kind of cat who will knock things off tables! Is she a little shit baby?

Okay, done babbling, though I'm sure I'll come up with something more soon.

Time for me to start getting myself together. Everyone have an outstanding Wednesday!
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We survived Monday! It was a busy day, but not terrible. It was busy, but we got a lot of people in, and started working on my new project, which required a spreadsheet. I'm always down to make a spreadsheet about it. There's something empowering about conquering data manipulation on Excel. I don't do it enough for it to become routine.

My stomach held off til the end of day to really start getting upset. It meant that I was able to eat my eggs in the morning, plus something for lunch. Dinner was pretty much as washout.

So I know I mentioned yesterday that I've started applying for kitties. Well, we got a bite back yesterday about a kitty named Celeste. She's a special needs cat who has Feline Leukemia, but is in remission. She could live 2 years, she could live her whole life without symptoms, it's a toss up.



I wasn't sure I was ready for a special needs cat after Boodle, but she needs us. Her previous family had her for 3 years, which is where she got FELV. Once they found out, they returned her to the rescue, where she's been for 8 months. There was something about her sweet little face in this picture that hooked me.

We were told that we should come and meet her, and then see how it goes, and that we should bring a cat carrier in case it went well. So, of course, I have no gone on Chewy and ordered half the site. She needed new Water and food bowls, and a new cat tree! And a new carrier!

Hopefully, things will go well. I've already set up an appt with our vet for a checkup right after we get her. We'll need to assess her heath, and then make a plan to keep her as healthy as possible, so we can have her for as long as possible.

Today, I shall see how my nausea does. Hopefully, I'll be able to eat some good things before the nausea hits. Yesterday, I learned that while plain eggs are good, an omlette with cheese and bacon is not. That made me nauseous. Go figure. I ended up tossing the omlette and making plain scrambled eggs instead. With sourdough bread. If I'm feeling exceptionally creative, I'd slice to pieces of bread and make toad in the holes.

Today, my two big bosses are down at the main hospital, and I've been put in charge of emails and the STAT list while they're gone, so the day should go quickly. I will need to be extra organized today.

This is going to be a busy weekend. Friday night, we have the Amazing Digital Circus finale. I've been spoiled about the ending, and I gotta say, choices were made. They may not have been the choices I would have made, but I'm looking forward to it anyway. Then, Saturday morning we drop Yoda off for a day of fun, and have the He-Man movie. It looks stupid and fun, so I'm there. My sister has something going on, so we thought it might be good for him to have a day at his camp. Afterwards, we'll have to decide what we want to do. We don't have to pick up the dog til 6, so we'll have a few hours. Some of it will be putting together the new cat tree, I imagine.

Then, Sunday, we have a game, and then we meet the baby.

Okay, time for me to hop off and go forth. Everyone have an terriffic Tuesday!

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Jun. 1st, 2026 10:56 pm
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Quick note that post-by-email and comment-by-email is (sometimes?) failing silently without actually posting right now! I'm pretty sure this is related to last night's shenanigans and will be fixed once Mark can finish the full fix for it, which he's working on, but if you've posted or replied by email in the last 24 hours, fish it out of your sent folder to check if it posted!

EDIT: This should be fixed as of around 7AM EDT! We *believe* everything that was stuck in the plumbing has been sent along to your journal or the comment thread it was meant for; it's definitely not where it was stuck anymore, at least.

Belated Friday Five...

Jun. 1st, 2026 01:32 pm
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(this is gonna make me look so virtuous, but Actual Mom deserves most, if not all of the credit here. She's the one that makes my house a home.) I would eat like George Costanza on a bender, probably, if it was always my call to make.
In an average week, how many nights do you eat home-cooked dinners?I'd say 5.
2. Do you plan your meals out in advance, or just wing it? Some planning, some winging. Most of my part is coming up with suggestions, which I did a few times a month till more frequent bouts of reflux have made thinking about food less appealing. I keep remembering all this stuff I read when I was younger about things like how people with Bulimia love dyed food like cheese puffs because they can be sure everything came up, and then wondering why I imprinted myself with that knowledge. Except that I was fascinated with the idea that people can "look Okay" and a. not know they Look Okay and 2. Not actually be Okay inside, for some reason.

3. How many nights per week do you eat out or order food delivered? At least one, sometimes two. I think about it much more often, but Mom sees that as a decline of civilization, and anyway, my need to digest and my occasional urge to have an adventure are kind of in conflict atm. (Hopefully not forever!)

4. Do you keep a stock of nonperishable foods from which you could whip up a meal or two if you needed to? A meal is probably a stretch, but because of the above, we'll always have soup and saltines.We could fill our stomachs, if not entertain.

5. Have you ever tried preparing meals for the week all at once, say, on the weekend?Not exactly...this might be more likely if I could *help* instead of just being a sidewalk superintendent...it's hard to make food for two or three, though, even when we're better at finishing off the leftovers.

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Happy Pride Month! It's a really shitty time to be GLBTQIA+ these days. So it's more important than ever that those of us who can show up and be our authentic selves and show off our Queer joy for those who can't or aren't safe to do so. I haven't seen anything from the Office of Diversity this year about working either Pride or Trans Pride, so I'm going to have to go looking.

We were discussing a campaign playlist for Marchen, and there's a lot of lovely fucked up songs on there, because the characters are almost all feral to some degree or another. So there's a lot of really cool music with some darker themes. Absolutely awesome. And I came out with my top song for how I'm approaching things, and it was much less dark and more hopeful. It's kind of my endgame song.



It's not dark by any stretch. Instead, it's gentle and hopeful, and talks about surviving no matter the odds. We have quite a way to go to get there, but it is where I'm looking. Redemption for the party, and if not peace, a rest. I mean, it is a fairy tale land, so there's got to be some happily ever after. It also reminded me how much I like Dar Williams.

I took my Mounjaro shot yesterday and today I feel kind of assy. I didn't sleep well, and now I'm nauseous as fuck. I hate this fucking medication. I'm so tired of feeling sick. I guess I'll be going on Ubereats and ordering a couple of quarts of Matzo Ball Soup from the Jewish deli. It's one thing I can eat all the time without worrying that it's going to fuck things up more. At this point, I should fucking own this deli.

I'm just so over this. I've got a new glucose meter coming today, because the one I got died, so I'll be interested to see if this is doing anything for my glucose levels. The dying one didn't think so, but seeing as it wasn't a good one to start with, I figured I'd get a decent one. I sure as shit hope this is worth it.

Yesterday, we didn't do anything. Jess woke up with a bit of a cough (probably allergy), so we decided to skip the Greek Festival. Instead, we did nothing but relax. Which was probably a good thing. We had some good food, as I sprung for the good sushi after the shitty stuff we had the day before. Also Fish and Chips. Both were excellent and made me happy. They weren't quite as good as what I had in Alaska, but the fish was not coming directly off the boat. Also, it was cod, not halibut. I like cod. But halibut is my favorite.

The food was excellent, and made up a little bit for the week of Mounjaro bland food.

We did watch a few videos. I mostly focused on food videos, and found a few more places that I might like to try. Disney food is looking mostly like a washout. They don't seem to have a lot off good food at the west coast parks. Definitely nothing like the cheeseburger eggroll they have in Disney World. I'm still going to eat and drink there, but I'll be very picky.

I watched a couple of videos on the hotel we're staying at in San Diego. It's called the Lafayette Hotel, and it is very much the House on the Rock-level accommodations. It has multiple restaurants and bars, each with a different theme. The main lobby bar looks like it's something out of New Orleans. Then, you move to another hallway and htey have a 50's diner, and beyond that is Quixote, the Mexican restaurant that was created to look like a Mexican church. All dark wood and stained glass and the beautiful painted tiles. There's also a games bar with two bowling lanes, and a Jazz supper club. The rooms are hideous. They're tacky and overblown, with clashing fabrics and dark wood, and I absolutely love it.



Just to give you a little glimpse of the rooms. It looks like it should be fun. Probably way more than we need, but we'll give it a go. The horrible tackiness brings me joy.

Today, I shall have to take some calls and do some work, and then on WEdnesday, we'll have our PAS picnic. I don't know how much I'll feel like doing that, but I will for the sake of call center unity. I have to go digging on our shelves, so I can find my badge. A lot of people are coming directly from work. I'm coming from work, but my work clothes are a little different.

At some point this week, we're going to go up to the guy and sign up for a 3 day pass to see how we like it and if we think we could stick with it. I really like the pictures of their therqpy pool. I would love to have a heated indoor pool that I could do gentle exercise to try to settle my knees down. Maybe my back as well.

Merrit, which is closer to us actually have a therapy pool, but they're also considerably more expensive by about $35/month. They have a class called Aih Chi on Sundays that might be good. Low impact excercise. I'd like to get a little more in shape before the big vacation next November. It's probably going to be at least as much walking as Alaska, possibly more once you include the four days between Disneyland/California Adventure and San Diego. Then, you add in Ensenada, Mexico and San Francisco. We're going to be using Uber and public transit as much as possible, but that's still going to be a lot. The hard stretch will be Anaheim and San Diego, since there's not really a break in between. We arrive in Anaheim on Monday, and will hit the parks on Tuesday and Wednesday. Wednesday night, we're taking the train down to San Diego, and hitting that on Thursday and Friday. Honestly, embarcation on Saturday may be relaxing after all that. At least now, I know the drill for the most part. It's a different port, so it might be slightly different, but we'll see.

It won't be as smooth as the first time, as we won't have aa concierge to walk us through everything, but we'll make it work.

I'm very excited about this trip. It's like another bucket list brought to life. I'm going to see most of the major cities in California. We might even do a little tour of Los Angeles, though I'm 99% sure that it's not really my scene. Anaheim will be more my thing as I ate up that Disney bubble shit. Then, San Diego looks so cool and chill, and I'm all about that. Then, onto Mexico and San Francisco. San Francisco doesn't seem my vibe, but it looks cool to visit.

I really want to go back to bed, but I'll give it a little while. I have some cheese and chopped prosecute to put in my eggs this morning if my stomach is up to it. Hopefully, my loaf of sourdough bread comes early. I want to have that with the eggs, and maybe have a bit of the olive tapenade that I ordered out of an abundance of hope that I wouldn't be sick as a dog.

I'm really missing Boodle right now. I love Yoda, but I also want a kitty, too. I started looking at pictures on petfinder, and found a kitten named Panini. She's a beautiful gray Maine Coon who was surrendered by the breeder because she had chronic constipation. The rescue got her cleaned out and medicated her, and after a month or two, she grew out of it. Perfectly healthy cat who just had a little bit of poop problem. I don't know if we're actually ready to get a cat. Yoda's still an asshole and I stll miss Boodle horribly. Not sure if I'm ready for a replacement. But I'd like to meet her and see. It's possible it won't even get that far. She may already have been adopted or the rescue doesn't think we're a good match, but we'll see.



Okay, time for me to go forth and get dressed and shit. After work, I'm going to. pick up everyone's medication for the month. But first, a probably busy day at work.

Everyone have the very best Monday possible!

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May. 31st, 2026 10:00 pm
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Robby has managed to put in a temporary fix for the site errors and things failing to refresh or not showing up where they should! The permanent fix is going to need Mark's experience, and unfortunately -- seriously, this literally never fails -- Mark has been on an international flight all day, because of course he has. (Never. Fails. He and I are not allowed to both take vacation at once.)

The site will work just fine with the temporary fix in place, things just might be a little slow here and there. We'll keep you updated.

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